Having been a member now for a few months, it has given me some idea as to what others are looking for. Their wants do not always match mine. I am looking for someone who is very discreet, non possessive, has an understanding of the fact i am married and my ability to meet can be restricted. Whilst I would prefer regular meets with just one or two, I understand that this cannot always be the case as they may have the same restrictions as me. I love sex. It is the most wonderful thing that can happen if both partners needs are fulfilled. I give of myself totally and expect the same in return. I am still a little shy and nervous but this is wearing off to some degree, so patience would be extremely welcome. Cleanliness & discretion is a must.

My Ideal Person My Ideal Person: I am pretty open minded as what a partner should or shouldn't be. So if any of you fancy a chat to see if we are compatible, please do get in touch. I love to spend time giving and receiving oral. Ideally someone who is in the same situation as me.

Thank you for looking X

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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