I am married but sadly my wife was left heavily disabled after an illness in recent years so have been lonely when it comes to human interaction. I like a rink every now and then but isn't a must for me. I detest drugs and seek someone who feels similar. Ideally I would like a lady or even a couple that fancy some nice long term, occasional fun which becomes more enjoyable the more we meet. Perhaps someone to try parties with or clubs? I have experience as we used to swing as a couple when we were younger and I really had a voyeuristic kink as i loved to watch her play more than anything. So any ladies that fancy being chaperoned to live out their fantasies with a man who will not become jealous but will in fact enjoy you wanting to be shared then please get in touch. xx

My Ideal Person Ideally a nice lady who enjoys naughty times but would like a regular friend to help feel safe and have even more enjoyable times with after any events.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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