I am looking to find aggressive/rough play. I like to be chased. I like to tease and flirt. Foreplay can be fun...if not too too long. I can instigate; however, I would like that to be mutual (I can be shy sometimes). I like to be pinned down or held down (dominated, yes). I like to be picked up and suspended. I like giving and receiving oral. I enjoy cum play on occasion. I do not like to be degraded, I do not want my partner degraded, ashamed or humiliated. That is a hard stop. I DO have a praise kink. Dirty talk is fun; I am trying to get better at giving it. I love to give and receive explicit compliments from my playmates. Boundaries. Let's get to it...my SO is STRAIGHT. He has no desire to interact sexually with men. He is very interested in seeing me enjoying myself and being pleased, and expressing it explicitly and vocally. I am not looking to change my situation, my relationship, looking to date anyone other than my SO. I am into finding a fun regular playmate(s) for ongoing fun. He is a little bit on the fence about joining in of course, for transparency, I would like him to be involved (we can discuss that); as I strive for balance and enjoyment for everyone.

My Ideal Person Our play partner would be outgoing but kind and explicitly instructive in the bedroom and have confidence without cockyness. We are ideally looking for a single male who is well endowed and down to earth. A female partner is definitely something I would like to explore with my husband. Someone who is bisexual and has the patience for us to learn more.