attracted to 80 percent women and 20 pct guys. have been with 1 guys/ 3 girls. prefer trimmed or shaved hair. you can take charge if you have the confidence, no shame, no hate, or other toxic attitudes they are a turn-off. Have limited experiences: kinda wanna try: trans and other gender experiences, oiled up sex, group sex or experiences. sound is sexy. Must use condoms if have a penis, unless infertile. No stds* best case scenarios: sex god/goddess wants to show me what I have been missing. Some nice smelling swinger(s) with swagger to calm my nooby nerves. maybe desperately shy horndogs who are willing to fuck middle age women since the head is good, etc. Again all genders, a sexy woman just has me on a leash, some men are sexy. but gross, rapey, jealous, liars, are unsexy always! -HAD THIS ONE PERFECTLY GOOD ACTUTALLY. WILLING BUT WORRIED, want smooth sex partners who can soothe fears long enough to have the best sex of my life. or at least more, since I'm only at 5 so far in the first half of life. s

My Ideal Person 1. I cannot host
2. I need some but not a lot, of prep time to clear my schedule and to shower ect.
3. Turn offs: shaming, misogyny, homophobia, bad smelling, anti-vaccine, bigotry, bullying or humor by stereotype, shallowness especially ppl who only want good feelings and are not mature in perspective, its about openess to experience, risk of awkward is not zero, but its ok.
4. Turn ons: sex-positive, accepting, smells good, DEEP CURIOSITY and GROWTH MINDSET. COMMUNICATION
5. Assertive not manipulative, honest not coi.