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Randy4lickin 47 M
1  question
f'n AdultFriendFinder and their damn points - 6/27/2008

I used 100 points to view a hot membre profile and clicked on something and the damn page went to the fucking order form. Should I be pissed, or just find a good webcam and jack off and forget about it?

20 response(s), 23 votes
jbirdlover69 45 C
1  question
To bang or not to bang? - 6/27/2008

I have a fantasy of watching my wife participate in a gangbang. Does anyobody out there have any advise? Have you had the same fantasy cum true and if so was it what you imagined???

27 response(s), 27 votes
CLASSICROCK2008 57 F
1  question
JUST THINKING - 6/27/2008

I was just on another site, And i wrote my answer to the question of the week.When i clicked update, The message came back, It will take up to 48 hours for the change to take effect.I was thinking i would like to have this job.lol, Has any one ever thought about this, That there is some who actually sits and read this stuff.

7 response(s), 11 votes
ladies - 6/27/2008

Where are all the ladies that are suppose to be here and why don't they answer their messages especially the local ladies.

15 response(s), 18 votes
einar24 67 M
1  question
Cum on - 6/27/2008

Lets talk cum.

what differences are there, and are any better than others? What can affect the texture, color, quantity, or other aspects of come? What affect does a vasectomy have?

12 response(s), 17 votes
BlackPussyRules 59 M
4  questions
Winks - 6/27/2008

Can someone please tell me how other standard members can wink at me? I cannot wink at people despite being currently able to look at profiles.

8 response(s), 8 votes
swtcouple4fun 60 C
36  questions
judging - 6/27/2008

1. Do you think through testimonial you can see or judge their skill in and out of the bed?

21 response(s), 12 votes
chocman26 48 M
14  questions
OMG...WOW!!!!! - 6/27/2008

Hey Ladies and Gentlemen.....I hope that we are all haveing a great time out there!!!

Okay ...we all have had good partners...those that were okay...and those we could have done without.The ones that were Excellent in bed....was there something extra or different that a person did with or to you that just made you go crazy? Is there something( a certain move or position or ???) that ...

11 response(s), 15 votes
rm_smapdi8 35 M
1  question
how many hookups? - 6/27/2008

i got a quick question to all you "finders".... how many hook ups have you actually made through this website? and be honest.

28 response(s), 21 votes
Swankie57 65 M
56  questions
Skeever? - 6/27/2008

Out of curiousity, since this site covers individuals from all walks of life, what is a Skeever, what do the term mean to you?

18 response(s), 19 votes
Ooer... awkward situation indeed.! - 6/27/2008

I've recently found myself in a very odd situation.

My mother has tragically become recently widowed, after being in a long marriage with a much older man.( my step father, God rest his soul) Her husband lost interest in sex so she hadn't had sex in over ten years.

She spent a long time grieving and I thought I would never see her smile again.



She has now met ...

20 response(s), 41 votes
MAW_n_servzwolf 60 C
26  questions
menopause? - 6/27/2008

to any of the ladies out there who have or going through menopause...i havent had a monthly in 10 months so its obvious i am going thru it...mu question is has anyone ever felt they were having a complete breakdown? we do have a family situation that may come to blows very soon..but its other things too. i just seem to be feeling way out of control and not sure what i may do next...all i do is ...

19 response(s), 18 votes
eyesopen63 64 C
1  question
long term - 6/27/2008

Do you believe one can find a healthy, long term relationship with someone they met on here?

31 response(s), 31 votes
_JKH_ 69 M
454  questions
It's them cougars! - 6/27/2008

I sure do miss them cougar women.

Have any of you gals ever been one of them cougar women in the past or are one now?

Any of you guys ever get nailed by one of them cougar women?
...

34 response(s), 42 votes
LawGen2 47 M
1  question
Question for the Ladies...to Shave (below the belt) or not to Shave that is the Question? - 6/27/2008

Ladies,

I realize up front that different woman have differing opinions regarding the above question. However, I'm curious to see, percentage wise, how the scale tips.

I've had someone women state that they want "manly men" with hair. While others seem to be put off by male pubic hair.

If you are indifferent, or like "neatly trimmed" as opposed to shaved or natural, ...

27 response(s), 30 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
The differnce between.... - 6/27/2008

I'm sorry if this is a stupid question but because we are new to the lifestyle, we have no clue. What is the difference between fuck buddies, friends with benefits and booty call?

27 response(s), 27 votes
An alternative profile pic choice question. - 6/27/2008

I've been involved on the A/L long enough now to have seen all the usual questions asked about how to choose a main profile pic. Dick pic or face pic etc.

I've had some responses that have questioned my choice of profile pic , saying that we should have chosen a nice romantic couple pic as we are couple, rather than our doggy style 'action' pic. Why is that? Just because we choose to ...

20 response(s), 33 votes
flaboi478 37 M
2  questions
Would You?? - 6/27/2008

If i walked up to you and (ladies) asked if u wanted to fuck?... (guys) can i suck your cock? wat would u say...

36 response(s), 39 votes
angels_2devils 49 C
1  question
Ladies, is it hot if a guy is willing to share? - 6/27/2008

In response to another question, about swallowing, one woman asked if the guy was willing to "snowball". I was wondering what the ladies take away from having a guy that will eat his cum out of them, off of them, "snowball" with them, eat his own or if he was willing to do some or all of these, in a group setting, with other men's cum? Is it hot or is it just a cool, one time experience type ...

24 response(s), 25 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Porn? Addictive or Not! - 6/27/2008

Do you think "Porn" can become addictive?

29 response(s), 25 votes
sexydc_73 51 M
1  question
Where's your favorite place to cum on a girl? - 6/26/2008

Where would you most like to cum on a girl?

34 response(s), 31 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Porn Movies - 6/26/2008

Do you enjoy watching porn before, during, after sex or not at all?

Which type of porn do you prefer?

21 response(s), 32 votes
honeyblondie 44 F
3  questions
What do you think about.... - 6/26/2008

putting face pics in your profile? I don't have one in mine and have opted to wait on exchanging face pics until a few emails have been sent back and forth. How about everyone else?

19 response(s), 16 votes
gent1015 66 M
6  questions
Has this happen to you - 6/26/2008

Ok I am sure this has happen to many of you woman, But guys has this happen to you? I met this lady last week. not from this site but from another.the plan was to meet for 1 hour a drink and talk.She was very upset that I would not let her come to my house after woulds.She kept telling me it was her size.Not true I thought she was very sexy an pretty, I just didn't think I new here well ...

11 response(s), 15 votes
rm_jetsetter63 52 M
4  questions
Whats really happening here - 6/26/2008

I remain a standard member due to the fact of the ratio of the men to women.I find this somewhat difficut to understand? I don't get it why this site won't allow you a few days grace period to email or be allowed to view mail. One would think that this would be more of a draw to join.

16 response(s), 19 votes
Lotsoffuncouple1 56 C
9  questions
Successful........... - 6/26/2008

For those of you who consider yourself to be successful on AdultFriendFinder, what do you contribute that success to?

Why do some people seem to have such bad luck while others seem to do so well?

13 response(s), 24 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
September 11, 2001 (9/11) - Where Were You When? - 6/26/2008

The exact place you were on September 11th, 2001, as the news of the terrorists attack on America at the World Trade Center, will most likely be remembered by everyone that is/was old enough to remember.

I was at work; sitting at my desk when it was announced over the radio. At first, I wasn't sure I heard right. A co-worker went flying to turn the radio up as we sat and listened. ...

23 response(s), 23 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Smile! You've Just Been Caught Doing? - 6/26/2008

Anyone ever caught you doing something you didn't wanna get caught doing?

SMILE! YOU'VE JUST BEEN CAUGHT DOING, WHAT?

10 response(s), 18 votes
Married, but not quite what you expect... - 6/26/2008

This really bugs me.

Swinging:

I know I came on scene thinking that it was filled with people who had reached a certain level of maturity regarding sexual behaviour and game playing.

I saw the scene as an honest attempt at squaring the circle, openly facing the reality that maybe we struggle to be monogamous , and this was how people attempted to live the dream of ...

12 response(s), 19 votes
Local ladies - 6/26/2008

how many people have found someone they know through this site?

9 response(s), 17 votes