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TaiChi_n_ChaiTea 59 C
1  Article
AdultFriendFinder Mail System   7/27/2004

I don't know about you, but I don't think all of my email is getting delivered here. Like most men, I have sent plenty of messages to other members that went unanswered. But, have any of you had this happen: I composed a message earlier today, attached foto(s), checked the 'Save a Copy' and 'Attach a Copy of Your Profile' boxes AND typed in the 'secret' 3 digit code. I clicked 'Send' and a ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 30 Votes ,8.24 Score
*WARNING* Deceptive Tactics   7/27/2004

Recently I received an email from someone that that posed as an attractive female interested in "Friends with Benefits." So I replied to their email simply saying that I might be interested, and would like them to email with more information. I received the email about 3 days later with an attachment of photographs. The email said that they were very interested in getting together for a ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 38 Votes ,8.71 Score
Giant1966 57 M
18  Articles
Sex-Friend/Friend-Sex?   7/26/2004

I´m trying to understand, if you have the "lets fuck" attitude, you are rude, but if also go the "lets be friend" route, most of the time, you get the "lets only fuck, no friendship"response.Maybe I catch people at the wrong day of the week or something.If anybody wants, feel free to send a message explaining to me the situation at hand.Most profiles are not detailed enough(one or two ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 25 Votes ,7.45 Score
lestat225 46 M
1  Article
I'm not sure this works at all   7/26/2004

I've been on this site for quite awhile now. I've got to tell you the truth, but I don't think it works. Actualy I'm starting to think that is a joke. <br> I have no problem what so ever getting dates on a normal basis out side of this website. I'm on this website to find a special type of person. I'm a responsible adult so I don't linger around the bars until 2am every night ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 17 Votes ,6.94 Score
Can you please respond, yes or no.   7/26/2004

I have been on this site for 2 months. My profile indicates that I am a married guy looking for sex and my spouse does not know. I have reviewed hundreds of profiles of women and couples in my area that are seeking other men. Their profile sounds like a perfect match and they often indicate that they will respond if I send them an email with a picture. Picture was included with the email ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 19 Votes ,7.48 Score
Re: Is That A Pie In The Sky Or Am I Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places   7/25/2004

What's interesting to me are all the letters from men angry that since "we're all here for the same thing, why aren't you women responding, or why are you being difficult? I'm not here for games!" Here's a news flash: If you're fat, old, ugly and broke, it won't get you any further here than it does off AdultFriendFinder. And what are "games?" Anything that doesn't involve just meeting him right away ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
pixs   7/25/2004

Why is that if you dont have any pixs to send out to collectors you seem to be treated like a leper. There are many reasons for not haveing pix on your profile either people are married and they dont want thier partners to find out or they just havent go a digital cmaera to be able to take any. Y is a pix so f****** important, surly we are on this site to meet up with people and enjoy ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
Men who can't eat pussy!!!   7/24/2004

I just wanted to rant about some experiences of mine with men who cannot eat pussy or who acts as if every woman they meet pussy is the same well it is not especially mine, I have met a few of these men who don't know shit and have to be told what to do to please me hell it seems like there should be a class on proper pussy eating in the local area, well back to me and my tragic events, one ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 34 Votes ,5.13 Score
RE: Im sick of not getting laid!!!!   7/24/2004

Dumb question. If you and your hubby aren't doing anything together, and you're not willing to cheat, then what the hell are you doing on this site? Everyone else here is looking for either just someone to screw or someone to join their little circle (and some of them are just to screw), so since you're planning to just make use of your fingers, ...... Seems to me you just don't quite ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 12 Votes ,5.10 Score
NETWORKING   7/24/2004

O.K I DON'T USALLY DO THIS. BUT SOMETHING ID GETTING ON MY NERVES. WHY DO GUYS ASK TO BE IN YOUR NETWORK THEN DON'T BOTER TO TALK TO YOU AFTER YOU HAVE ACCEPTED IT. WELL I FOR ONE AM NOT ACCEPTING ANYMORE INVITES UNLESS I HAVE ACUALLY CHATTED WITH THE GUY...........


1 Comments, 154 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
Bout this whole site   7/24/2004

As I've been working my way through AdultFriendFinder I've managed to meet lots of people. Unfortunatley many of them seem almost obsessed with only speaking with/ meeting with only doing so with the ones they already know. This idea is just dumb because the entire point of the site is to meet up with more people. SO why not even just try to be nicer and open up to new people on the site. ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 21 Votes ,7.21 Score
rm_yngmerlyn 41 M
1  Article
Why is honsety so hard?   7/24/2004

Why is honesty so hard? Lets face it we are all here for the same thing, either it is sex, a relationship, or it is just sex. So please lets all be honest with each other from the beginning, either you want to meet for just sex. or you want to meet and start a relationship, or it might even be both. I have talked with a few that it was said to be one thing and it turn out to be something ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 22 Votes ,6.25 Score
cupids and compatability charts   7/23/2004

Not really rant so much as advice but as I've only seen comments here on the subject, this is where I'll post it. <br> Many are new here on AdultFriendFinder and this is more or less directed to them for informational purposes. <br> It seems that many people are concerned about the cupid matches and the compatibility stars when they see a profile. Since I have a standard ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 12 Votes ,4.92 Score
friendsfirst2004 58 M
83  Articles
%: RE: Do people know how to READ   7/23/2004

You put together a very well written and thought out article. <br> I have several minor (or major) observations and facts that I believe should be pointed out. <br> 1 - Your profile is very well written and describes exactly what you are looking for and who should not bother to reply. Many profiles on this site have no substance or information about what is or is not ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 15 Votes ,6.50 Score
funinflorida71 41 M
1  Article
Re: Is Chivalry Dead?   7/22/2004

No, but I’d have to say it is on the endangered species list! Not because few men poses it, or know of it. Rather, because few women truly understand or value it. Look at the typical male/female relationship. If a guy is nice, courteous, giving (other then financial), attentive, loyal, and displays an undying love he is considered week or a push over. Women claim and whine that they ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 13 Votes ,6.16 Score
Re: False hopes   7/22/2004

You make a great point, however based on my experience when creating a profile, sometimes writing less can be more. I'm not attracted to men with facial hair and I wrote NO MARRIED MEN, or a more polite, "Sorry, but I'm not interested in meeting married men" in my profile. When my profile first posted, I received several rude, mean spirited emails from men that apparently read my profile ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 12 Votes ,6.33 Score
Re:It's Unfair that the Seeker Sees Your Pic Online But Not Willing to Share His   7/22/2004

I agree with you 100%!! I think it's funny the excuse about "privacy" etc., as if you're going to take out a full page ad the second you receive it (how vain can one get?) Myself, I have had only a couple of men bme a photo. One accused me of looking for Bradalk at sending Pitt...NO, I just don't want to feel like I have to put a bag over his head! A different man stated that he could ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
rm_curtis123x 54 M
0  Articles
MY EX_WIFE   7/21/2004

The marriage began to fall apart in the summer of 2002. It stated when my wife accused me of having an affair. She asked if I liked her friend Denise, and I said yes as a friend, but nothing more. After she heard that she went wild!!! She struck me several times, destroyed my computer, and punched our infant while trying to strike me. After about ten minutes of this I called the police, ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 23 Votes ,1.14 Score
Why can't I buy it???   7/20/2004

I just finished checking out the link to the shop, and it puzzles me. I'm old enough to walk into a store and buy whatever I want, so why do I have to be 21 to order anything from this site? I think if I'm old enough to buy it in person, I should be able to shop for things I can't find in my area from the privacy of my own home. Tell me what you think!


0 Comments, 1 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Giant1966 57 M
18  Articles
The reason why!   7/20/2004

Another rant from the peanut gallery.My title the reason why I invite women;couples to my network first most of the time, to find out if there is any interest at all.When I invite a person or persons to my network, I read there profile to make sure we are somewhat compatible, no sense writing a long story about myself to someone I know will not respond.Once a person is in my network or I am ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
Giant1966 57 M
18  Articles
Real old profiles!   7/20/2004

Here is one way AdultFriendFinder could get rid of old profiles.Gold and silver members pay for the service of the web site, so most no problem, for anypeople do not spend money for something they will not use.Standard membership is free, Standard member should be a 6 month or 1 year limit, and when someone does not open their profile within certin time frame, profile deleted.I´ve seen profiles from ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 7 Votes ,6.10 Score
PlayWithMe56 56 F
6  Articles
It's Unfair that the Seeker Sees Your Pic Online But Not Willing to Share His   7/19/2004

I have a complaint that I'm sure a lot of people encounter. I'm speaking on behalf of the women here since I am a woman. You post a pic with your profile, a man likes what he sees and contacts you, fine. You respond to him and ask him for a picture of himself. He turns around and says "if we meet you I guarantee you won't be disappointed, no one ever was. or... I feel uneasy in showing ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 29 Votes ,7.35 Score
rm_MakinTime101 57 M
1  Article
Replys   7/19/2004

Other articles here indicate that people really don't reply to messages. I joined this site to meet people and have fun. It looks like there are a good number of people in my area I could meet and start exploring a few things I've never done before, but people won't answer back. <br> I see adds of attractive looking people that I'd probably enjoy playing with; their adds indicate ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
rm_madwolf75 40 M
1  Article
Waiting for replies!   7/18/2004

Ok, is it just me or do other people get fed up sending out e-mails and invitations to your network and then wait days to get a reply? I have got 20+ people in my network and have spoken to a grand total of 3 of them! So what did the rest join for, the hell of it?? What are they waiting for, christmas? They must have joined for a reason, assume something caught their eye, so why the ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 34 Votes ,6.57 Score
Do people know how to read????????   7/18/2004

OK, honestly what is up with people who cannot read a persons profile? I am very honest and upfront about the fact that I am a Full Figured woman. The words Voluptuous, Full Figured, Caucasian and many more are just some of what I cant figure out why I get emails from people who are very interested in getting to know me, but when I send them pictures they tell me I'M Fat? Come on ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 21 Votes ,6.71 Score
RedHotNSensual 59 F
3  Articles
Re: Do People know how to READ?   7/18/2004

This is my take on the question "Do people know how to read"?(a person's profile on AdultFriendFinder)I concurr/agree with the author of the original article...entitled:"Do People Know How to Read?" I am also a "fuller figured", but not obese, tall, shapely, attractive, "volumtuous" woman that is very passionate, I possess a great personality, and I love people....especially MEN. I consider myself ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 12 Votes ,6.51 Score
Re: answer the winks   7/18/2004

On this profile I am a standard member. I have recieved several winks from other standard members. I enjoy the attention so please do not get me wrong. I do however have a question or two that perhaps you can answer for me. <br> One is since I am standard member, and am not allowed to contact you unless you write an e mial for me to reply to, how do you propose I answer you. ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 14 Votes ,6.18 Score
9inNAIL4U 72 M
17  Articles
Ladies..Answer the Winks!!   7/17/2004

When good fortune fails to rain down on us all, and we are reduced to sending "winks" to people we would love to contact. This isn't because we are too cheap to buy a Silver or Gold membership. I have had both premium memberships and I always start my approach with a wink. If you respond, I will too! <br> When someone sends a wink, it is like that sexy stare from across the ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 22 Votes ,5.29 Score
MistressEva2004 46 F
4  Articles
Is my libido too high?   7/16/2004

OK, so here's the deal; I love sex when I'm in that relationship 'zone' where we both feel comfortable with eachother. The only problem is, do I want sex too much? If your with a signifigant other, you should be able to jump eachother's bones whenever the mood calls for it right? Apparantly not. See just as women have flucuating hormones that sometimes just calls for 'no sex', men have ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
friendsfirst2004 58 M
83  Articles
%: Follow up to the Cock Nazis   7/16/2004

I agree with your article, but I would have to add in several other factors like size, weight, race, looks, age and cup size to name the biggest ones. <br> It seems that many people are more concerned with appearance than what really matters in a relationship of any type: compatabe attitudes, similar interests and likes, personality, and yes intelligence. Granted everyone has ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score