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rm_tribble1980 35 M
1  Article
Do I gamble on it?   12/4/2003

I've known her through AdultFriendFinder for the better part of two years... We've chatted online, emailed privately, met in a group-setting, met in a private-setting, and have even slept in the same bed (no contact, though). <br> We're friends, that much is a definite. Yet, I feel as though I'm developing feelings for her above and beyond the simple "friendship"-level. I've thought about ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
Respect   12/4/2003

Guys, respect your women! If you respect them then they will respect you. Don't cheat on them, don't always make sexual comments, don'tuse them....RESPECT THEM!


0 Comments, 2 Views, 9 Votes ,6.42 Score
How far should you travel to meet a stranger?   12/3/2003

I've met a few people from this site and have driven quite a distance for the meeting. How far should someone drive for a "potential" meeting with the person they plan on hooking up with? There is never any guarantee.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 80 Votes ,7.72 Score
BE SURE 2 SEND A PHOTO!   12/3/2003

Guys, (and girls too, actually). Be sure to send a pic with your response! So many people do, so why would we risk taking the chance. If you don't have one online, AdultFriendFinder will let you mail it to them, and for $15 they will post it. It's worth it if it gets you more responses! Also, Say a little about yourself, and what you're looking for. Most important...be honest!


0 Comments, 3 Views, 89 Votes ,9.17 Score
help me -cant get a woman   12/2/2003

im 39 years age not had steady a woman for years what im i doing wrong i dont drink booze only glass wine now then dont like going to nightclubs what do i do and im shy


0 Comments, 5 Views, 37 Votes ,2.90 Score
rm_bellevuene 49 M
1  Article
How can a woman become multi orgasmic?   12/2/2003

I've got a very hot partner. However, she can only have one orgasm and then she is done. I've tried fucking her slowly and sometimes if I wait too long she "misses" her orgasm. I have been with multiple partners and can make other women cum over and over again. Any suggestions for my girlfriend?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 27 Votes ,6.29 Score
What would make my wife excited to give me head?   12/2/2003

My wife is very disinterested in giving me a blowjob. It was very common when we dated, but since getting married, she prefers to ignore my desire to have my dick sucked. I am ready to take my wares to someone that likes to do this since I am always giving her oral. I would like to know if there are any techniques or ways to get her interested again in oral sex that gets me to the point of ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 22 Votes ,5.89 Score
BiBrunett1966 49 F
1  Article
I need some advise on something...   12/2/2003

i am bisexual and i am shy i have played around with my girlfriend. she is married now and i want to be with her again. we go out on friday night and when im with her i get excited and i want to do something with her but i am very shy and i never even let her know how im feeling so the night goes by and then i go home and nothing happends. is there anyone out there that can give me some ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
putitwereuwant2 37 F
2  Articles
the art of giving good head   12/1/2003

First of all you have to love doing it. If you don't like it you cannot give it all you have. Not just be okay with it but for it to actually get you going yourself. First lick the tip of his cock with the tip of your tongue slowly. Then flatten your tongue and swirl it around the head of it. Take him deep within your mouth and close it around him. He should jerk good and hard at this ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 11 Votes ,6.35 Score
Re: The Lying Ex!   12/1/2003

Honestly that's not true in all cases, I've become really close friends with some of my ex's. I still talk to them a lot and we still get advice from each other and such, just because one of them or maybe a couple of your ex's just couldn't be your friend afterwards you shouldn't really judge them all like that. It would be nice though to just have them say they couldn't deal with being ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
toledo420 31 M
5  Articles
something wrong with transexuals?   12/1/2003

is there something wrong if a very pretty woman has a dick?would u get with her still or push her away?i know a very hot transexual and she want me so much should i go 4 it?


0 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
toledo420 31 M
5  Articles
how many women like anal sex?   12/1/2003

my woman says she will never take it in the ass how would the best way 4 me to go about getting her to agree with me and open her ass?


0 Comments, 15 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
I WANT TO FUCK MY COUSIN   12/1/2003

Recently I went to party and met my sister-in laws aunty, my god I was gobsmacked by her beuty. Long blonde hair , georgous ass and tits that were so perfect, all I could think about was making love to her all night, but she is a relative now isn't she? <br> I haven't been able to stop thinking of her since I am married and dont want to ruin the family, but I really need this ...


0 Comments, 151 Views, 14 Votes ,0.74 Score
needboyfriend 52 C
1  Article
Only One Time Please   11/30/2003

Having been meeting men for over six months now and I must tell you - it would be refreshing to meet a man that actually meant what he said. <br> Please - don't take offense but you are turning us women jaded on the experience of single men. <br> I put an add in to meet a single man for a threesome with my husband. Asked for a relationship - someone that would visit ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
rm_masame5 36 M
1  Article
what to do   11/29/2003

A lot of times a member may find themselves in the perdicament of adultry. I know that most of us here are here for sex, but there are a select few who would like to keep it as clean as possible. I logged on one day to find that a beautiful woman had sent me a message. I replied and we began to chat. After a couple of weeks we met at a local resteraunt to have coffee and discuss our ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_masame5 36 M
1  Article
re: husband is overseas   11/29/2003

Listen, if your husband is over seas and you wan't to fool around; ask him. If you truely love him you'll wait. when a husband and wife enter into that sort of bond it takes a lot to keep it going, but only a little to ruin it. If he is okay with it you must understand that he is probably doing it as well. If this is okay with you then maybe you should also take it to the next step. Swing. ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
rm_melissa0987 40 F
1  Article
looking for help   11/29/2003

Hi i am 28 and have a huge fantasy of being with another woman for a long time now.Well i have a problem i live in Dartmouth Nova Scotia and i don't know anyone to help me with this problem i only have a few girlfriends and they are not into other woman i would love to meet someone around here in my area but i don't know how to go about meeting someone. If you have any ideas on how to help ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
rm_oralhungry35 49 C
1  Article
winks and hotlists   11/29/2003

I'm a standard member and use the winks and hotlists as a way to tell other members that I'm interested.So all you gold and silver members that get added to a hotlist or winked at check to see if they are a standard member, cause if they are you have to make first contact in order to get a response.I hope this helps more people hookup.


0 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Re : when your guy says he needs some space?   11/29/2003

I am not attempting to speak for all men, but the few times I have felt like “I needed some space” is when: <br> 1. She is demanding more attention than I am able or willing to provide to her. 2. She is getting too involved or attempting to make decisions about my lifestyle. (I.e. my friends, family, money, wardrobe, etc.) 3. She is giving the impression that ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 0 Votes
APetiteRedHead 68 F
1  Article
Am I the only that feels this way?   11/28/2003

Have you ever IMed with a person, you've met, you plan a lovely weekend together...and while you are IMing during the week proir to our meeting he disappears? But you can still see him typing? And you ask him a question about the upcoming weekend...and you have to wait for 20 minutes for him to answer??? <br> Am I being overly sensitive...??? But to me, that just sounds too ...


10 Comments, 683 Views, 26 Votes ,7.45 Score
keep it clean   11/28/2003

hygene is crucial. many wemon arent being orally gratified, and it is most likley due to the foul odor of their pussy. if you want to recieve oral pleasures....have a freshly deuched box with your pubic hair nicely manicured.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_BiSalemOR 55 M
3  Articles
straight guy dating other guys for sex   11/27/2003

I'm a straight guy and thanks to some bi curious women I've been with it has made me bi curious too. Afterall, if a woman can love sucking or anal then a guy should be able to enjoy it too. I'm straight and have no romantic interest in guys but a select few hot guys make me want to get on my knees and satisfy them. However, been straight makes me scared about being with guys. To me its ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 111 Votes ,7.07 Score
Help with wife's inhibitions   11/26/2003

I have a hard time getting my wife to open up to new experiences. I have gotten her to take some nude pics and talk about fantasies, but she won't open up to chatting online with other couples or singles. I would love to get together with another couple, but she is so hesitant about sex that I don't ever see this happening. Any help on getting her to relax would be appreciated.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 150 Votes ,7.15 Score
Re: Husband Overseas   11/26/2003

You are in a delema, you know that morally it is wrong to cheat on your hubby, but also since you are so horny, it is emotionally wrong not to while he is away. If he is going to be away for a long time then, why not try masturbating. Or save up the tension for when he comes home. Or go for it and fuck your brains out, it is a perfect opportunity to expand your sex life and learn what you ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
greenmtnvt2 48 C
1  Article
RE: husband is overseas   11/26/2003

Well we are in the same situation as you. I am currently away over seas and my wife is back at home. We both are haveing to deal with being horny on a regular basis. When we are together we love to play together with others as well as each other. The key for us is we always play together. We discussed what we would do with swinging while we are apart and decided to keep it to ourselves and ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 0 Votes
Create a Fantasy Bedroom   11/25/2003

Colors may be the single most important factor in creating the mood of your room. Psychologists have been studying the effects of colors on the mood for many years and believe that colors play an important role in eliciting responses. For example a yellow room is thought to be playful and optimistic while a red room signifies stimulation and passion. Fortunately we do not have to limit ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 118 Votes ,8.49 Score
bedroom for passion   11/25/2003

You can wine, dine and dance until the wee hours, but nothing heats up your nights together like a sexy boudoir. So if advertisement <br> <br> you're ready to transform your sleeping quarters into sultry surroundings, follow these steps for adding intrigue and indulging your senses. One warning: Making these moves may be hazardous to your sleep. <br> ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 36 Votes ,7.64 Score
How to Get Totally Satisfied in Bed   11/25/2003

Breathe Your Way to a Big O One common reason women take longer than men to reach their peak is that they aren't breathing properly. Most women breathe too shallowly. Deep breathing, on the other hand, delivers more oxygen to all your muscles, including the ones in your vagina, which allows them to rev up their orgasmic engines. To quicken your response time so it's the same as his, take ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 109 Votes ,9.45 Score
Re: What do you have to do to get a response?   11/25/2003

I agree that a "wink" just means, "I viewed your profile and thought it was what I was looking for" but like "I added you to my hotlist, " it doesn't mean anything unless you send an e-mail telling her what you liked about it!! A lot of writers do not check their grammar and spelling. A few words that are mispelled can be overlooked, but not the whole letter!! I know that I personally ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 84 Votes ,9.54 Score
michcouple1212 60 C
2  Articles
Prove your identity!!   11/24/2003

My wife and I have been members on AdultFriendFinder as a couple looking for a bi-female for about a week now and we have been ignored by 90% of everyone we tried to send a message to. We suspect it's because we don't have any photos posted yet. Well, a photo is just that, a photo. It doesn't prove the photo is the person you are communicating with. I wonder why most of the beautiful women only have one ...


0 Comments, 178 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score